Sunday, September 3, 2017

人是很脆弱的。这个我懂。

have a colleague who suffered a stroke, had a brain operation, and now coma in the hospital.

no direct working relationship w her, but算是有说话的.

she attended my wedding and i remb she was one of the guests who bao the biggest angbow. and she was also the very rare few, who wrote a card as well. 

occasionally will sit and lunch w her in the pantry, when i tabao food back to office to lunch. sometimes i will be there first, sometimes she will be there first. 从来没约好,只是碰到就坐同桌吃。

每说不到一两句,她就会叹一次气. then she will briefly lament abt how tough and political the pple are.. 

work aside, i remb her telling me she gave birth at a young age.. now one of her gal is a teacher, while the other is still studying.. then weekends they will go church... like to go cycling as well. and then she told me she's kidda worried that her gal still has no suitor and she will be sitting down w the husband to talk to the gal.. and then she has started to eat healthily cuz her health had not been too good recently... 

a typical hongkonger, talks v loud and always appear to be v stress. not good at dressing up, the 1st time i saw her, i tot which auntie is that..never expected that she actually holds quite a high rank.

i guess she's really one difficult person to work with. long heard about it, and evident from the constant changing of both her superiors and subordinates. 

and on the last day of work before i start my maternity, she was the last person left in the office and she was the last person i spoke to before i start my 4mths of leave. as usual, as always, she was working late. 

saw her at the lift when i was back to work after the 4mths. only acknowledged her and did not talk to her cuz i was talking to someone else. 

who knows, a few days later, received news that she fell at home, had a stroke and now coma in hospital. 

haii. 

life is really unpredictable. 

it's just so scary. 

这一秒好好的,下一秒可能就..........

let's all just not be too hard on ourselves. 

learn to love and be generous with it. 

爱要及时,不要吝啬.

really hope she will get well soon.

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