just finished washing my toilet and mopping the floor.

woah.

no easy feat i must say. 

now waiting for washing machine to complete its wash b4 i hang. 

lol. 

this wk wfh, still can do abit here and there.... 

next wk back to office, good luck liao wor. 

keke. 

ok, im gonna talk abt the pros and cons in having a helper. 

honestly, having a helper 真的很爽. there is always someone to kio yr sai. u can make a mess of everything, and just walk out of it unscathed. u have a double you. while you are here doing ur work or things that u enjoy, there is another 'you' doing all the things which you dont enjoy. then everything is done up nicely, without u having to lift a finger. 

the best example will be, while we go out on family outings, the laundry at home gets done, the floor gets mopped, the windows got cleaned, the toilets got refreshed.... we came home to a totally clean house, all we need to do is to wash up and.... sleep! 

same when we had parties at home. just enjoy! someone will handle the aftermath. when the guests are gone, again, all we need to do is wash up and.... sleep! 

yes. that 爽.

but there is a price to pay too. 

literally price aside, there are also many things that we have to put up with. 

even for family, we also say, 相处好同住难.. so how about a total stranger? and lagi worse, someone from a total different nationality?

so half the time, we dont understand each other. 

then u have to put up with many things.... let me just say why i not happy with my 5 helpers

1) first one - always 脸臭臭... dont know what is she thinking abt.... 

2) doesnt know how to cook and not that smart... i even have to prepare food for her.. so.. no value add from her. ...

3) the runaway helper! yes, this one... i suspect she's suffering from depression. forever looking sad and 忧愁, dont know why so unhappy.... ? then got attitude problem one lor. abit will talk back kind.

4) this one, geng! super geng! gave her specific rest time to rest, but will always 'eat' my time. then takes looooong toilet breaks, like half an hour kind? shower time also damn dead long. then told her working time cannot use phone, but whenever i check the cameras, half the time, she is standing at the shoe rack checking out her phone....! this one, i really spent alot of time monitoring her via cameras and my mood was really affected by her! during work i also very stressed up, cuz worried she is slacking at home.... see??? i really am not suitable to hire a helper right??

5) this one, all very good liao. UNFORTUNATELY, she is quite unhygienic. doesnt like to wash her hair, and she sneezes alot. really alot. and, also attitude prob lor. say abit will black face or cry. after that when u talk to her again, she abit bo hiu u. wth right?? even when our bosses say us, though not happy, we still smile smile and be nice right. SO WHO IS SHE TO GIVE ME BLACK FACE AND BO HIU ME AFTER THAT?????? and, she is the only helper who asked for wifi, who sat down and watched tv with us, who asked me to buy every single amenities for her, even sanitary pads ok! like.... wth again??? pad also want me to buy???? omg really. then every now and then will have attitude one lor... asked her what happened, she will say its her family matters.... so... her family problem, became my problem also...? haiii. 

ya, so that were my 5 helpers. 

they bring in the same benefits, but each had different problems. 

and some other problems i heard before - got BO de la, or 手脚不干净 de la, or suddenly went kee siao and 要死要活 de la..... many many many types and patterns! 

so, i have decided now that the cons out-weigh the pros liao. 

time to take charge of my own house and stop having to worry/stress up over a stranger. 

ya, 真的很 stress de. scare she sleeps late la, wakes up late la, use hp la, slack la, do things do wrongly la.... etc etc etc.. 

and so many times, i bring the whole family out, just to not see her at home. ya. really. then im very uncomfortable with her around de. like, i have to wait for her to exit the kitchen, before i go in.... 

很辛苦 hor?

i think its me la. 是我的问题. 

so, no more such nonsense liao. 

till..... i decided that the pros outweigh the cons again!!!!! 

LOLLLLLLL